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When a Raise Isn’t the Fix: Why More Money Won’t Solve Behavior or Culture



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There’s a moment every HR professional dreads: An employee is underperforming, disengaged, or behaving in ways that disrupt the team and a well-meaning leader suggests "What if we just give them a raise?"


We get it. Leaders want fast fixes. And compensation is one of the few tools in their belt they can control directly. But here’s the hard truth, You can’t buy accountability. You have to build it. And when you use raises to solve behavior or morale problems, you’re spending real money to delay real conversations.


Let’s unpack when raises work, when they don’t, and how to stop using money as a Band-Aid for a culture that needs care.


When Money Doesn’t Work: Raises Can’t Fix Problem Employees

Raises are meant to reward growth, contribution, and performance not to encourage someone to start showing up differently. But in many workplaces, raises are handed out to:

  • Keep someone from quitting even if they’re underperforming, particularly when a department is short-staffed

  • Smooth over repeated conflict or drama

  • Avoid having a feedback conversation

  • "Motivate" someone who’s clearly disengaged


That doesn’t inspire change, it rewards dysfunction.


When a leader gives a raise to avoid addressing a difficult employee’s behavior, they send a message to the rest of the team “We’ll pay people more instead of holding them accountable.”


Most, although not all “problem employees” aren’t actually problems. They’re symptoms. Of unclear expectations. Of misaligned roles. Of unaddressed stress. Of leadership avoidance. This is not a problem money can fix and must be addressed by:

  • A one-on-one conversation grounded in impact, not emotion.

  • A written performance improvement plan with measurable goals.

  • A coaching approach that asks: “Do you want to grow here, and if so, how can I support that?”

  • Accountability that’s consistent and values-driven.

  • Celebrating actual progress, not just tenure.


Remember, giving increases to under performers will erode credibility, and breed resentment. Your high-performing, emotionally intelligent team members see it for what it is and they remember it when they start looking elsewhere.

 

The Raise-as-Band-Aid Problem: Morale Edition

Raises don’t just get used to fix individual behavior. They’re often thrown at morale problems too.


While compensation is important, low morale is rarely about money. Most people don’t disengage because their paycheck is $3,000 too low they disengage because they feel unheard, overwhelmed, unappreciated, or disrespected.


So when you throw money at morale without addressing the root cause, here’s what happens:

  • You buy temporary silence, not lasting engagement

  • You reinforce mistrust: “They think they can pay us to shut up.”

  • You widen equity gaps if only a few are rewarded

  • You ignore the real work of leadership and culture-building

 

So, When Does a Raise Work?

Let’s be clear: raises absolutely have value when used for the right reasons.


  1. To Recognize High Performance When someone consistently exceeds expectations, takes initiative, and delivers impact, pay them. You're reinforcing behavior you want more of.

  2. To Retain Valuable Talent (the Right Way): If someone is essential to the mission and aligned with your values, a raise can show you’re invested in keeping them, after you’ve addressed growth and engagement.


  3. To Correct Equity or Market Misalignment: If someone is underpaid compared to peers or market benchmarks, it’s a moral and strategic imperative to fix it. Pay equity builds trust.


  4. As Part of a Promotion or Role Expansion: When a role changes significantly or someone steps into new responsibility, a raise reflects that evolution.


  5. To Reinforce a Culture of Fair Recognition: Raises can be one part of a broader system of recognition that includes feedback, visibility, and opportunity.


The HR Takeaway: Don’t Buy Time. Build Trust.

HR isn’t about blocking raises it’s about making sure raises mean something. We have to help our organizations stop using money as a form of conflict avoidance or emotional compensation.


When you use a raise to sidestep hard conversations or mask systemic issues, you’re paying for silence, not performance. And silence always breaks eventually.


So here’s the challenge:

  • Coach leaders to do the hard stuff: set expectations, hold people accountable, give real feedback.

  • Use money wisely: reward growth, not complaints.

  • Talk to your team: If morale is low, ask why. Fix that first.

  • Build a culture where people want to stay not one where they feel bought.


Raises are powerful. But they don’t heal a broken team dynamic. They don’t inspire character change and they don’t erase poor leadership.

 

 
 
 

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